Mt. Vernon Register-News


July 12, 2014

Young teen is mocked for not wanting to date

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 14-year-old girl in middle school. I have never seriously dated anyone, and the one time I did I felt trapped. My friends think it’s weird that I have never dated a guy and they call me a lesbian. I just want to finish my schoolwork and wait until high school to start dating. I don’t want to feel weighed down by anyone. Is there something wrong with me?— CONFUSED IN S. CAROLINA

DEAR CONFUSED: Something wrong with you? Good grief, no! In fact, I would go so far as to say there is something RIGHT with you. Not every teen— and that goes for boys, too— feels ready to date at 14.

It makes me angry that your “friends” would call you something you’re not just because you’re not doing what they’re doing. If it persists, your parents should talk to the school about it.

Preferring to concentrate on your studies and waiting until high school to date is nothing to be ashamed of— it’s something to be proud of.

DEAR ABBY: I attended a friend’s birthday celebration a few weeks ago at a chic restaurant. After our entrees were ordered and the appetizers served, the restaurant’s fire alarm sounded and the dining room was evacuated.

For 20 minutes all of the patrons waited patiently outside while the fire department was summoned. We learned from another guest that there had been a small fire in the kitchen.

When we returned to the dining room, a heated debate ensued among the guests.

One person said that because the fire alarm had interrupted our meal, the lunch should be complimentary.

Others insisted the restaurant owed us nothing beyond an apology. We paid our bill, but the question remains: Should the management have shown some consideration for the inconvenience we experienced?— FOUR-ALARM FRAZZLED

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